How to ' Apply Love' to money!contact me.
Remember the Law of Emotional Resonance/Attraction? You get more of what you feel. Well, that applies to money, like anything else. And since Love is the solution to all lack, let's see how we can apply this to money.
You may understand already the emotions we feel when thinking about or dealing with money are the critical factor here. If you don't, then think of how you feel each time you deal with money in your day-to-day life. If someone mentions a bill that needs to be paid, are you tense or relaxed? If there's something you need to buy, how do you feel - anxious or enthusiastic? That shows you your current feelings about money. It shows you whether you're attracting it or pushing it away! If your subconscious has the association of 'bad' with money - i.e. it feels uncomfortable when you think about it - you're unknowingly going to sabotage your efforts to make, or attract, more. If you're feeling anxious and thinking 'I haven't enough money,' much of the time, or in fact any of the time, you're generating sadness, frustration, despair or anger; not love, or joy, enthusiasm or happiness! Our subconscious mind will therefore arrange that we experience these SAME emotions connected to money in future, because that's the law! That's why I call it the Law of Emotional Resonance - it's not the 'things' we attract, but more of the same emotion connected to them.
It can seem a very catch 22 situation, because how can you feel good about not having something? Obviously, something's got to change - and the only thing we have control over is our inner world of thoughts and feelings, which are what direct our actions. The Law of Emotional Resonance is a natural law, it operates impersonally, not judging us, just serving us. Our subconscious hears "Bring me more lack, more worry, more frustration." As this happens, we get to feel worse and worse about money. So we get less and less of it! That's why it's so vital to take control of our minds and learn about the more subtle laws of life. The universe is built on the success principle, and we are all being shown how powerful our thoughts and feelings are; and that's why we must learn to take responsibility for them. Until we do, we can't make any progress. Things don't just 'not improve', they spiral down, getting worse and worse.
The answer is amazingly simple. Feel love for money and all aspects of it. It's useful, it's necessary, and if you want it, your subconscious can easily come up with ways to get it! One way is to concentrate on those things you love, and connect money to them in any way you can! Reverse your feelings about money first, and the reality will follow.
The first step is to make up your mind never to feel anything bad connected to money again. Stop the old habits, right now. Make a commitment to yourself - if you find yourself worrying about paying for something, immediately turn your attention to how good it will feel once you've paid it. Or remember the last time you bought something you loved. Feel that feeling again and again, and you'll attract similar situations to yourself in future.
Maybe if the ONLY thing we loved in the world was money, and we hoarded it rather than spent it, we would be in danger of losing our humanity, or our soul. But if you're reading this, I suspect you're one of the many people who long to be able to not only pay your own bills and take care of your family, but to help others and make a difference to the state of the world. Do you have some dream that you secretly fear will never be realised for lack of money? Lack of money itself is a symptom of fear! Fear is a block in our energy field which can only be removed by Love. It's your birthright to be happy and creative , to express yourself in your own unique way, and to grow in understanding of yourself and the world. Lack of anything isn't good, and it isn't necessary. It's really a sign that you have an unhealthy belief or block somewhere which is generating negative frequencies in your life.
Apply some of the qualities of the multidimensional Reality of Love to your thoughts and feelings every time you have to deal with money; practice these as you pay for things in the shops, as you check your bank balance, as you plan spending in the future, and as you remember handling money in the past:
Appreciation - be happy when you pay a bill, for the things money brings you every day. Dwell on how good it feels!
Anticipation - how wonderful it's going to be to have more and more money attracted to you! Enjoy positive expectations.
Kindness - always be kind to yourself and others - especially when you're dealing with money matters!
Confidence - you are applying a Law which works in everything, everywhere. Just practice feeling confident and see what happens!
Empathy - feel connected to money! Look at others who have money and admire them; find something to like about them, rather than envying or disliking them.
Strength - feel how having money as your ally makes you stronger and more effective. HOw much more could you express yourself and make a difference to the world if you had money behind you?
Patience - don't be worried or anxious - it will come! Practice feeling relaxed even when you're facing setbacks and frustration.
Understanding - money is a convenient way of exchanging energy! It makes life easier when you have it. It's flexible, impartial and your servant.
Acceptance - money is a symbol for energy and it's how our society works; when someone offers to pay you for something, accept happily!
Joy - feel how good having the money you need for fulfilling plans and dreams is. You can have the feeling without actually having the money! Attract it to yourself.
Admiration - you could reflect on the Law of Emotional Resonance, the perfect mechanism which links your vibration (thoughts/feelings) to ideas for sources of income. You can admire people who are rich and who are generous and kind. You can admire exquisite craftsmanship in expensive items.
Enjoyment - spend on yourself and family, or give to those in need, with a sense of enjoyment. It's your choice and money will go where-ever you want it to! Even if you don't have very much, get used to the joy of giving and spending whenever you can. It's the quality of the feeling attached to it that counts, not the amount you spend.
Enthusiasm - there's so much money in the world, look forward to getting more of your share - where is the next chunk of money coming from? Be excited about it!
Respect - your own worth and your contribution, as well as the work of others, deserves respect. Paying a fair amount for things shows respect.
Hope - yes, you can change your relationship with money! It's completely within your control, and the world reflects what we believe back to us. Change what you believe and you change what you receive!
Trust - you are applying a powerful natural law which MUST bring you more of whatever you connect to a good, or bad, feeling. Watch that law at work and get to trust it more and more. It's infallible!
Willingness - to see and accept the many opportunities you are given to earn money or obtain the things you want and need. Open your ideas, try things out, be creative and willing to move from where you are now!
Example; changing your feelings about money. BILLS.
Do you feel bad about paying bills? Do you put it off as long as possible? Bills are ways of taking care of ourselves and can be treated with love and appreciation when we remember what we're getting in exchange for our money. Even if that's just the peace of mind from getting it over with. Make a decision that the next bill you receive you will feel good about paying immediately - no hesitation, just look forward to the great feeling of paying it straight away. Enjoy the novelty of being happy to pay a bill! Just take it one bill at a time. Set your intention and watch as things miraculously work out for you!
JOBS. Many of us cut off our creative talents, thinking we need to 'be realistic' and work at a job we don't really enjoy. Why? For money. We have picked up the idea that 'you can't earn a living doing what you love'. But people do earn a living doing what they love - it's not impossible! And we can all learn to love what we do more; to find satisfaction even in the most mundane tasks. We certainly can't afford to shut the door on doing what we love, even if we can't see how to earn a living from it. If we cut ourselves off from love in any way, we have cut off our source of guidance towards the life of abundance we really want. Start now, in your job, and find something you love. Look for a way to do something differently, to suit you - and make that your mission! Invest your creative energies into your job somewhere and you've started the ball rolling.
Do it Now!
For example, if you have a dream of working for yourself, make sure you connect to that dream, and nourish yourself with the energy it generates within you. Allocate yourself time to make a start - look into what you must do to make that happen now! Remember nature grows things from tiny seeds. Find something small you can do towards your goal every day. Enjoy the whole process, as your creative mind gets to grips with a goal that gets your enthusiasm going. Savour the feelings of excitement and anticipation. If you're nervous about approaching others, you can send Love ahead of yourself, and bless the person, bless the meeting, bless the outcome. You can apply Love to every aspect of your life, past, present and future.
You know how good it feels when money flows in and out of your life, naturally and effortlessly. Mend your relationship with money, and with it your'e enhancing your own sense of self-esteem. Make it a habit to think well of money, every day - to bless it, and to treat it kindly. If you think ill of someone, you push them away from you. Think well of money, and you will open up the blocked channels of receiving and unleash a flow of creative ideas to help you generate streams of money into your life. Make this a habit, and your money worries will soon be a thing of the past.
However, maybe looking just at money as a goal doesn't inspire you. Maybe, now you're aware of the nature of the Law of Emotional Resonance, you'd rather aim higher, and go for Success instead! Success means achieving your most heartfelt, meaningful goals. Money is just a means of acquiring things, but it's not the only way. The universe has unlimited resources and most meaningful goals can sometimes be achieved in remarkable ways that involve no money at all! Which leads us to...
Money, Abundance and Success!
How I developed the Applying Love Method.
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